Cancer is tough. I am glad to see the 65% chance. That is a great number. My husband was diagnosed with stave IV lung cancer with mets to his brain last november. He was given six months to live. I know the pain of finding out a loved one may be gone sooner than we think.
Remember you are not alone.
Keep on posting your feelings It has helped me just get it out.
May you and your cousin be healed and healthy!