Beth,
It was great to hear back from you so soon!!
Andy and I have a lot in common, first off,the
obvious one, we have the same cancer, second I
was 34 on diagnosis day and I just celebrated
my 37 birthday on Saturday (Dec.3) freaky hey!!!
I still have the skin rash on my face, just not
as bad as it was.I found that everytime I
took the prednisone(I hate prednisone) my skin
would clear up instantly and then after the week
or so when that sh## wore off
the rash would come back, oh well, the joys of
chemo!!! My wife would always joke about crushing
the prednisone and and making a cosmetic wonder
pill out of them and sit back and enjoy the rewards lol!!!
The joys of learning about cancer, I had a cough
for about 6 months and I was working for an oil
company in Northern Alberta (we are from Lethbridge Alberta, 2 hours southwest of Calgary)
and I would work in isolated places and be in
camps for a month and sent home for a week!! Good
money, but no life, and each time I came home my
wife would send me to a clinic about the cough and it was always "you have a cold/flu take this
and it will go away" kind of thing. Finally on
July 30/03 my wife sent me to the emergency at the hospital here and told me to demand a chest x-ray because I was leaving the next day to work
up north for a month again. She saved my life,
probably, the e.r. doc. was at first pissed at me
for not having a recquisition from a doctor to have a chest xray and I told him by the way(I was
getting mad and I don't get mad) I have been watching this lump(Lymph node) grow in my collarbone area and it doesn't hurt but...instant
chest xray and blood work and ct-scan and he told
me that isn't his specialty, but I should call my
wife and tell her to come down because I will be here for a while, I said what is going on?? and he said, its not my area, but I think you have
CANCER!!! To which I said bullsh##!! An internal
doc. here confirmed it is cancer and I either have lymphoma or leukemia and I will have to go
to Calgary for treatment asap and that our lives
will be on hold for at least a year!!! So when
in this period of time are you allowed to breathe
exactly hey!!
I never knew what an oncologist was before or a
hemotologistbecause I have never been or had any
family member/friend associated with cancer before, complete shock and like you really have
any time to absorb it. Oh well, that is all done
now and I remember being a little intimidated
driving to the Tom Baker Cancer Center in Calgary
and knowing it will be my home for the next months, but knowing inside that it WILL NOT BE MY
LAST HOME!!! I never had any real difficulties with chemo. My first month the doc.'s gave me a
weekend pass to go out of the unit, and I had absolutely no immune system, hemo and platelets
were borderline transfusion rate and wbc & absolute newts were non existant but yet they said, just make sure you wear a mask in public,
duh!! so hear we are walking through Eau Claire
Market on a busy Saturday and I am wearing a mask
and it was the exact same time that Toronto had the SARS outbreak, did I get some nasty looks but
my wife & I killed ourselves laughing, mean hey!!
To make a long story short, I ended up feeling
like I was catching a cold so we went back to the hospital.Later that nite I apparently (I have
no recollection of this)went to the bathroom and
came back to my bed and my wife said I had my pants down at my ankles and didn'tclean myself so she took me to the bathroom and got me in the lights and my eyes were huge she said so she paged the nurse, my temperature was 106.5 and my
blood pressure was 45/27, when my fever broke,
they could only get my blodd pressure as high as
50/32 so I was sent to ICU to get my B.P. up and they did , obviously, turns out I gave myself
ECOLI!! yikes. On the chemo front, I only got sick from cyclophosamide, I took this drug twice
and both times I would puke every 20 minutes for
a minimum of twelve hours straight!!!
Overall though, I am a much stronger person today and I love life sooo much now and take nothing for granted ever. I love every day and
I ALWAYS make up and go to bed HAPPY!!! We have no children, just a dog, our precious little
shih tzu Tobi, my constant companion these past
couple of years. Is Andy working? What type of
work does he/you do? My wife is a graphic desinger at the college here and I am still not
working, I'm recuperating because of my lack of
energy, and I am taking courses by correspondence
to be a home inspector, my background is sales~
over 17 years in sales actually, so this Home Inspection stuff is all new to me and I love it,
love a challenge and there i nothing in this world that I can't do, bring it on!!!
Look forward to hearing from you again!!
Wishing you only good days and great days..
LIVESTRONG,
Darren