My 54 yr-old brother died on Tuesday, 2/12/08 from this same tumor. Just 9 months after his diagnosis. Your Dad sounds much like my brother in his last days. We took Tim to the hospice facility on a Wednesday, 2/6. On Thursday we decided to gradually reduce his steroid dose of 4 mg per day. The only maintenance drug we kept going was his Kepra to prevent seizures and that was successful. Before getting to hospice and for the first 3 days he was there, things were very difficult. Those days were full of extreme aggitation and restlessness for Tim. I'm not trying to scare you but you do need to be prepared for that as it is very common in brain tumor patients when the end is near. On Friday noon, we asked/demanded for better control of his symptoms. For the first time in 9 months Tim started complaining of pain. They added Haldol by IV and started 2 Sub-Q lines. One was used for IV Adavan and the other was used for a continous IV morphine via a pump. Once that got going, he started really sleeping. By Sunday he was sleeping most of the time, was not eating or drinking. He was resting and peaceful and free of pain. Tim died 6 days after being admitted to hospice. In the end, his death was gentle and easy - and for that I am truly grateful.
I pray God's hand will be upon all of you in the days ahead.
Judy