Mom's Gone!

How do I live without her?  My mother lost her battle with the monster GBM yesterday.  She took a turn for the worse last Thursday and yesterday I held her hand and told her everything I could while I watched the light go out of her eyes for the last time.  How do I fill the void? I miss her so much already, I can hardly breathe.

I am so very sorry for your loss.  I pray that God will help you and your family through this difficult time.

 

Connie 

So sorry to hear that your mom is gone.  I know what you are going through.  It was the hardest for me the first few weeks when my mom passed away which is 10 1/2 months ago.  I also felt like I had a hard time breathing.  Just remember she is in a better place and she will always love you.  Just cry as much as you want, get it all out with spouse, friend, or family.   I believe finding other people who have what you experienced helps.  You are not alone.  I didn't think my world could go on without my mom.  I also tell my children often how much my mom loves them and will not be forgotten.  I still cry here and Hope that helps you cope with your loss. 

God bless you!  While your pain is so new, realize that her's is now over.  I urge you to dwell on the good memories and cherish the time you had together.  There is no magic spell that will help you feel better nor fill the void.  I offer you peace and comfort and all my deepest sympathies.

I am so sorry for your loss and pain. Give yourself time to heal from this loss and know that your Mom would want you to do so.

Again, God's peace and love to you and your family.

Kathy

I'm sorry to hear of your mothers passing. It can never be easy losing a loved one, especially your mother. I pray and know that God will give you the strength to get through this difficult time. God Bless~

 

Kindra

I am sorry for the loss of your dear mother.  Please accept my condolences.  Remember you will be reunited eternally...maybe that can help you get through the day.  It helps me.  Grieve for her but keep happy memories in your heart. 

God bless you and your family,

Diane

Thank everyone so much.  I know everyone here understands my pain. I think it still hasn't soaked in and family is still here and will be until Tuesday.  The services are Monday @2:00 pm.  When they are all gone, then I am sure the silence and emptiness will be enormous.

 

I am so sorry!  You were there until the end - cherish those last moments!  No regrets!  Remember the good times & most importantly she now has peace and is a free spirit rid of this horrible monster!  With time, I hope you will smile again with all the memories you have of her and know you have her close to you in your heart (after all, you are in yourself, a part of her!)  ((((hugs))))  Nikki

I'm so sorry for your loss. My eyes fill with tears reading your post, because I know it's only a matter of months before it's me posting about my dad.

Be gentle with yourself. There's a time to grieve, and you have to give yourself permission to let it out. There's no path out of grief except right through the middle of it.

I'm so sorry. I hope you have many good memories to comfort you when the worst of these feelings have passed.