Hi Victor,
If it makes you feel any better, here is how my husbands journey started:
March 25th-Diagnosed; Pet Scan the following week, cant rember the exact day; April 7th- surgery to biopsy another spot on his vocal cords (that one actually came back negative though it had spread to other side of his neck); April 9th-loading dose of erbitux; April 10th-Surgery to have PEG tube placed; April 15th-First radiation treatment
As you can see our journey pretty much started in a blur. I can tell you that it seems overwhelming but we tried to stay as positive as possible and I know its been said a gazillion times but take one day at a time. Before you know it, it will be over and a new journey of recovery will be begin.
Hang in there and God Bless