On 6/1/2008
2ndtimer wrote:
daughtertodad,
Length of hospital stays can vary depending on many factors, even without an infection. The intestines "go to sleep" during surgery as a natural response to being handled, and it can take a few days for them to "wake up." The previous post was right - takes notes and keep copies of reports. There's too much to remember so don't rely on your memory. The chemo nurses will give you lots of information and answer questions. Don't hesitate to ask questions of them or the doctors. When you find out what his chemo plan is the people on this forum can be of help with their own personal experiences. This process can be hard on the caregiver as well as the patient, so take good care of yourself, too. It sounds like you will both do fine. Good luck.
Lynn
I am glad he had the chemo after surgery. My Dad had a gastrectomy 6 yrs. ago and they did not do anything else,chemo or radiation, and in Feb. the oncologist called him cured and in April he was determined to have recurrent gastric cancer stage II or III. after taken for not being able to eat (feeling of fullness) and weight loss. You and he are doing the right thing. My Dad is on Xeloda now. We are having an endoscopy on Tuesday to see if it working--shrinking the tumors.
Good luck to you, be proactive in your treatment, research and ask questions both of the Dr. and others who have had experience, even other cancer centers and/or hospitals. I have found even the pharmacist to be very helpful with medication answers. I usually go with something when i get two or more of the same answers.
I will be sending blessings your way. Take care of each other.
Pam