Hi Hyper,
I hope your biopsy turns out better than my husband's did (obviously it didn't go well since I am here).
However, if there is a positive to be found out of this hell on earth we call cancer, I would have to say it would be attitude. I have always been one to worry about EVERYTHING. Money, the kids, the car, work, you name it. Now, I realize how precious life is and to take nothing for granted. I never realized the importance of the little things like not being able to give my husband a bear hug becuase of his peg, or not being able to kiss him because his lips were so swollen and painful, or going outside and being able to work, going to the beach to surf, EATING, you name it. I guess it is difficult to realize how important and meaningful these things are until you can't do them anymore.
Stay strong and positive and I will keep you in my prayers. I wouldn't wish this on anyone, but if the worst does come to fruition, know that there is a wonderful support network and this monster is beatable! Keep us posted.
God Bless and take care!
Brandi