Hi, I'll be glad to offer any help/encouragement I can. I was diagnosed in January of 2004 with EC Stage 2A T-2 (t-2 means they were pretty sure it had not gone through the wall of the esophagus). On 2/25/04 I had a "small surgery" to insert the J-tube and chemo port. I began chemo/radiation sumultaneously for 6-8 weeks the beginning of March 2004. On May 25, 2004 I went in for the Big Surgery to remove 2/3 of my esophagus and 1/5 of my stomach. I was in the hospital for 15 days. For the next 3 weeks I felt pretty miserable, but I was on a lot of drugs so I don't remember a lot. I began to really feel better in July, but didn't get feeling real good until the middle of October. By Thanksgiving I was entertaining guests for Thanksgiving dinner, which I cooked myself. The J-tube came out in October (I think) and they removed the port in December. No discomfort to have either of them removed. Recovery for me was slow but progressive. I did not progress as fast as the surgeon's other patients for some reason. My surgeon is now doing the minimally invasive surgery which was just a new procedure back then. They are making a lot of advances. Expect the whole thing from beginning to "feeling good again" to take 6 to 8 months. From then on it is a progression of feeling better and better.
My quality of life is very good and a year after my surgery we took a 7 week trip through 22 states and home. I swim, painted the second story of our house, wall papered our bedroom. I rest a lot and need to sleep at a 30 degree upright position. He will need a wedge for his bed, but might be most comfortable in a recliner at first. See some of my other posts. All in all, I am so grateful that this is no longer a death sentence. There is always hope. God bless you. Let me know if I can give you any other tips.
I just stumbled upon a website about a Cancer Survivor that I thought was quite good. He was treated at Sloan-Kettering in NYS. You need high speed computer though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ3V7f7RlqA