Hi Debbie
This Nov. will be 3 years since my auto sct. I was 57 at the time. I agree it is a scary time, since there are so many things that can happen and nobody seems to come thru this adventure the same.
True the chemo previous to the transplant takes your immune system down to nothing. It assure that there is a clean slate, no cancer and offering a clean slate for those stem cells. Your hubby will have to go thru the whole vaccination thing again. Usually if your system can handle the sct regimen, the vaccine process should be easy. My "favorite memory" is one day I came in for shots and ended up with a four shot regiment, both arms and both posterior "cheeks", then a list of what had gone where in case I reacted to anything, they could track the source.
I spent a total of 21 days in the hospital for my sct. Week 1 was the chemo followed by the transplant. Once I was transplanted I hit the low spot of the chemo and spent about a week of sleeping 20 hours a day. The other half I think I spent in the bathroom with diarreah(sp?). I didn't want to eat, but my doc had planned ahead and new this, so I was on some sort of liquid nutrition. I was lucky because contrary what I was told beforehand this is the only reactions I had.
I had some cds I brought I listened to and had brought some reading but didn't do much of anything. Depending how he feels he may not want to do anything much to pass the time.
Hope these thoughts help. Wishing you both the strength to move forward on this journey
greg