Hi Anna,
Just hearing that your dad has survived 10 yrs is encouraging. When I was first diagnosed, my dr gave me maybe 3-5 years. That's when I asked if any place specialized in MM and went to AR. Well, it's been almost 2 1/2 yrs since dx.
My diagnosis came as a result of a fractured vertebra. The surgeon who fixed the fracture also did a biopsy and it came back with the MM dx. He did the biopsy because an MRI showed there might be 'something' there, even though a bone scan didn't show anything. I am forever grateful to this surgeon. I probably would have found out some time during the next couple of months because of the lesion that came through my skull. I had this bump on my head and was in the process of seeing my dermatologist for it. My first MRI after diagnosis, however, did not include my skull (even though it was supposed to be a total body mri). I had to go back so they could do the head and they found 3 lesions in my skull, one of which came through and the other two were on their way!
The week I started chemo in AR, Dr. B told me that the bump would melt away the first day. I thought he was dreaming. Sure enough, by the end of that first day I could not feel the bump and I had this hole in my head. So now I have an excuse as to where my sense has gone! Right through the hole. I still have an indentation where the lesion was.
So, that's my story and I'm stickin' to it.
Lois