Thanks for the reply Katie. I am 55. My Dad's head has been dark & bruised looking, but during the 9 mos of chemo's it would get lighter, and recede; then darker again and grow. Now it's very angry looking: dark, spreading, ulcerated, bleeding, tumerous. Very quickly got quite out of control.
But a change in plan-now it's straight to rad. We-I go with him to everything-see the rad oncologist tomorrow right away @ 8. He had a consult 9 mos ago but decision was at that time to start with the chemo and wait & see. Now it's critical. He'll probably be mapped tomorrow, too. I had my rad at the same place/same Dr. He's wonderful, as is his RN. I had my 35 treatments there-I know everybody!! All 3 of us actually share oncologists-we joke we get the familyplan.
Cancer sucks, for sure-and I know that so very well-as I keep dealing with it in one way or another. Take care! Gayle