Thank you very much for your reply.It sounds about like I figured it would be as far as being terribly sore and my dad is 20 yrs older.I hope that he can cope with it as yours did.My dad has benn an extremely hard worker all of his life but this is a whole different kind of fight.And the difficulty he had with chemradtiation that he finished about 4weeks ago I really did not expect him to go along with the surgery.However the surgeon was pretty confident in his ability and the circumstances which gave us and dad a lot of hope.
My dad also got bad dehydrated after chemo twice.That is pretty bed in itself.
Hopefully he will be able to fight it out and I the V.A. will get he and mom some help after words.I know its going to be hard on her also.
Again thank you very much and if you can think of anything else please let me know. May you be blessed