On 7/22/2008 sweetlady wrote:
would anybody how to find inner peace to get rid of these bothering feelings i have . or what site if there is one . please tell me if you can. do you know or understand why these feeling are so real . and i am trying to find out why , thanks katie
Dear Katie,
I am so sorry that you are having such a range of emotions. It sounds from this post and the one from yesterday that you are not getting the support you need at home. There must be some resources in your area. Do you have a local chapter of the American Cancer Society? They may have either cancer support services or a list of some support groups in your area. Have you told your oncologist about your feelings? A good oncologists office should have a list of support groups and services in your area. You are not the only one going though these emotions and a right support group, volunteer, or counselor may be able to help you. Many times these services are available at no cost. I urge you to reach out if you haven't already and if you have and have not gotten results, I urge you to keep reaching.
I am a cancer patient also. I have stage IV pancreatic cancer. I find my peace and strength in my relationship with God. Do you have a belief in God? I am encouraged by reading inspirational books, listening to spiritual music, and praying.
I cannot relate to the range of emotions that you are experiencing but I am willing to communicate with you through this message board if you would like. Sometimes it helps just to have someone to listen to you. I can be that person if you like and maybe others will have their comments and encouragement to add to this post.
Please hang in there ... seek out some help in your area ...and keep in touch if you would like. I care.