Skylog is correct. Once you get started with everything, you will find out it's not the worst thing in your life to go through. I know that sounds weird, but it's true. I found out in September '07 that I had two nodules. After a FNA and a core biopsy, they seemed to be suspicious of cancer, so in March '08 I had a TT (total thyroidectomy). It was found to have spread to very few lymph nodes but had been in my body for 8-10 years (estimated) with no symptoms.
The first thing you want to do is find a surgeon who has done 100's of these surgeries. Honestly, you have to ask. It's a simple surgery but it's not. They have to really know what they are doing as not to harm anything (vocal cords etc.) while they are in there.
The procedures you will need to go through are a discomfort, a nuisance, but very manageable. Make sure you find out if it's confined to your thyroid, neck and lymph nodes in the neck. If so, you will be eligible for thyrogen in prep for your RAI (Radio active iodine treatments), Definitely look into to it. Find an endocrinologist that uses thyrogen and do some study of it.
As you approach all of the different procedures, just message us and we'll share what we went through and what worked for us!
You'll be fine and soon enough it will all be behind you.
Ask away, stay calm, and more than anything stay POSITIVE...it's the best medicine!
Donna