Hi Furbie's Mom,
This is certainly a tough battle to fight, but you are not the Lone Stranger, or the only soldier. Check out this support group:
http://www.ess-sarcoma.com/
Their web site is new - probably a lot they have to learn about using the internet for support, but I'm willing to bet that individuals in the group AREN'T new to fighting this cancer, and have a lot of valuable information and advise for you.
Also, take a look at their "lessons from geese" page:
http://www.ess-sarcoma.com/ documents/lessons_from_geese.pdf
Certainly a philosophy that all cancer patients, survivors, and their friends and families should embrace!!! (medical people, too!!!)
One other thing: please do not overlook CAM (complementary and alternative medicines, also known as complementary and/or alternative therapies) in your quest for treatment. I would never advise anyone to forsake conventional therapy and go with alternative therapy only, unless they had pretty much already made up their mind to do so, or if alternative therapy were their only remaining hope. I do, however, hugely advocate using herbs, supplements, and natural foods to fight cancer, especially in conjunction with conventional therapy. Mother Earth has an abundance of wonderful healing substances, many of which can either inhibit or actually kill cancer. I think if a natural anti-cancer regimen were at least a part of every cancer patient's arsenal against the disease, we would see a lot more people dancing victory jigs and bragging about having kicked this beast in the butt!!!
There certainly is a lot of information on the internet about CAM, but unfortunately not a whole lot that pertains specifically to ESS and is understandable in layman's terms. This site does give some very reasonable recommendations in terms of supplements that would at least get you started in fighting this thing while the docs are figuring out what they should do:
http://www.sarcomacancer.org/adj_treat
(If you scroll down, you will find a list of excellent natural cancer fighters.)
Perhaps someone at the ess-sarcoma group can give you some specific resources on what natural remedies they have found to be effective for this particular cancer. I also recommend that you try to find a naturopathic oncologist or naturopathic nutritionist, to give you some professional advise on how to use natural remedies to get the drop on this cancer. Even if you had to pay out of pocket and/or travel quite a ways for just one visit, would well be worth the effort and expense to get a very pointed start at this rather than trial and error.
Last but not least, take a look at this site:
http://www.cancertutor.com/Other02/CheckFast.html
Should conventional medicine come up empty as to treatment for you, cancer tutor might well become your most valuable reference. this page talks about stage IV treatment - do not let that scare you. I am referring you directly to this page because I want you to see that there are a LOT of alternatives out there when/if conventional treatment fails. Some of these therapies (e.g. diets: the brandt grape diet or the Budwig diet) can also be used at the same time as conventional treatment - kind of like giving cancer a double whammy. Perhaps at least becoming familiar with this site will give you an added advantage as you journey down the road. Webster Kehr is an extremely knowledgable authority on natural treatment, very devoted to presenting the very best information out there on ways to kick this thing in the butt!!
I hope this information helps, and I wish you much success in overcoming this disease.
Sincerely,
Tre