Hi,
I feel for you. The bladder cancer we had was confined and we hope it doesn't move. I was plenty scared too. If it comes back I will be there again.
We ask for prayers. I feel that helped us get through all we had to go through. We you start waking the medical thing, you get numb or better and just do what you have to do.
First find the best doctor for this your insurance and do. We love Kansas City Dr. Thrasher but I have heard that cancer treatment centers in OK are just as good. The one in OK adds super nutriton to help the immune system-not a bad idea.
The surgery was not easy but it was better than we expected. We are still learning. We did this in April 05. He is back to work and doing well. He is 57. It is do able.
Could you bladder cancer have gone to Kidney from the bladder???
Mouth sores are a side effect of chemo. Some are thrush-like a baby would get. How about some yogert.
Rose