Hi Peglee,
I am also a non smoking non small cell lung cancer female, 65 years old.
You need to tell your doctor about your concerns. Delaying Chemo and radiation is not the way to go. Your cancer needs some attention as soon as possible.
I, too, have the same problem you have. I get sooo sick from any type of medication that has been prescribed for me. But I still have to take it.
I've had two rounds of Chemo which weren't a 'walk in the park', but I'm still here. And so will you be. You have to cope with the side effects of chemo but you will be okay. Talk to your doctor and see what they say.
Take care. Jeanne