Direct hepatic infusion pump and TACE are both valid therapies. When you meet with the Dr. you should also ask about ablation therapies, like radiofrequency ablation, or the newer chemotherapies like gemcitabine and Tarceva.
Asking other people about their experience might be interesting, but it will not translate into a similar result for you. Each person reacts differently to different therapies.
I had TACE done last February. It stabilized the tumors, but did not shrink them. The drawback of TACE is that it can only be performed a limited number of times. Also, I had a very strong inflammation response to the TACE, which was very, very painful.
I am now doing very well on cisplatin and gemcitabine every 3 weeks, with Tarceva every day.
A great place for you to look for information is the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation. You can find them easily with a Google search or other web search engine.
Good luck to you!