So sorry that your family is having to go through this.
There are many on this board who believe there is hope in alternative therapies. There are many of us who indeed are successfully holding metastasis at bay by using alternative therapies.
I recommend you take a look at the Cancer Compass alternatives board.
An excellent web site to get started learning about alternatives is:
http://www.cancertutor.com
You might also take a look at Ty Bollinger's book, "Cancer: Step Out of the Box." It is available for PDF download through his website:
http://www.cancertruth.net
You might also follow the links on the Cancer Compass homepage and talk to someone at CTCA - they work with a lot of patients who haven't been given hope by other medical practitioners.
Please feel free to write me back if you have questions.
Sincerely,
Tre