Hi Cherie,
In addition to seeking out treatment recommendations from the drs you've already seen, I hope that you will consider complementary and/or alternative therapies. There are many natural substances, including herbs, foods, and supplements that can combat cancer, either in combination with chemo, radiation and surgery, or by themselves. Things like IV vitamin C, curcumin, and paw paw, to mention a few.
If you can get access to a naturopathic oncologist that would be wonderful. If not, seek a consult with a holistic practitioner - a naturopath, osteopath, homeopath, or someone who practices ayurvedic or traditional chinese medicine.
The home page on Cancer Compass includes contact information for Cancer Treatment Centers of America, the organization that sponsors this board. You could contact them and ask for information on holistic practitioners in your area that might have knowledge of treating this cancer. You might also ask if CTCA has anyone who has treated it and could at least give you advise.
Regardless of what treatment you choose, I hope you will seriously consider starting on a formal cancer diet. Excellent references for these can be found at www.cancertutor.com, as well as a wealth of information on alternative therapies.
Another good site for information on complementary and alternative therapies is www.lefcancer.org
Also, regardless of what therapy(s) you choose, there is something you can do right now to start fighting the cancer. There are five supplements that major proponents of alternative therapies agree are absolutely essential to fighting cancer. These are common inexpensive supplements easily found at health food stores, herb shops, and online:
selenium 200 mcg/day (can take up to 400mcg.day for several weeks to get yourself jump started)
magnesium 200 - 250 mg/day (max 350 mg/day)
zinc 50 mg/day (could take up to 100 mg/day for the first several weeks)
manganese 10 - 15 mg/day
calcium 1200 mg/day
you also need adequate vitamin D-3 to be able to absorb and utilize the calcium - 1000 iu - 2000iu /day is usually adequate for most people - 10,000 iu is max (our bodies manufacture vitamin d-3 if we get adequate sunlight - 15 - 20 minutes/day, but I do not believe in leaving this to chance)
Since you are disabled and do not have family living in the immediate vicinity, I recommend you seek the assistance of a cancer support group. From what I understand support groups specifically for rare types of cancer are few and far in between, but groups that offer support for breast cancer can be found, and certainly groups that offer support for all cancer patients are easily located. Your dr may be able to give you good contact information, or call the patient advocate's office at the local hospital and ask if they can direct you to someone. The American Cancer Society also may have information on local support groups.
Getting plugged into a support group can make a lot of difference. Many times there are volunteers who are willing to help people get to and from chemo, to provide food and other services, and they are great people willing to lend an ear and advice when things are rough.
If you would like to get a quick idea about some other simple things you can do to start beating this cancer while you wait, you are welcome to look at my blog. I designed my own herbal regimen for estrogen-receptor positive metastatic breast cancer - it has kept me in remission. I do not recommend it as prescription for anyone, but rather have published it as an example for others of the common foods, herbs and supplements that can be effective in fighting this dread disease, as well as boosting the immune system and improving over-all wellness. I have tried to emphasize those things that should be safe and hopefully effective for most people. You are also welcome to look at anything else on my blog that interests you:
http://motherearthtreasurechest.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-pers
Please feel free to contact me through the link on my blog if you have questions or need someone with whom to talk.
I am wishing you the best.
Sincerely,
Tre