My husband had the same diagnosis and treatment. He was hospitalized in March, 2008, for two weeks after the Whipple, home for one day and returned to find an abscess so hospitalized another two weeks. He lost over 40 lbs. Since the doctor felt he had removed all of the cancer, it was early stage and no lymph node involvement, they also decided not to do chemo.
He had a stomach tube inserted which required tube feedings; this lasted for about two months after his discharge. He was discharged under visiting nurse care; they came twice a week and later once a week for approximately two months. He took a long time recovering and was very depressed too. No energy, no appetite; said food tastes different (still does). He started feeling better when they put him on iron because of a low blood count and is feeling very good today and has regained all his weight. Energy is improving and he has a good bit of his strength back.
It was a long hard four months... very difficult being the caregiver during those times due to his depression, but don't give up.
Despite his prognosis after surgery, his last CAT scan showed two lesions on his liver. A liver biopsy shows this to be metastatic cancer from the ampulla. The surgeon does not want to operate. We are going to see the oncologist about other treatment.
Would like input on chemo or other thereapy which you have experienced and what the after effects are like. Any input will be appreciated.