I was 42 when diagnosed with stage II infiltrating ductal CA of the right breast. I had 4 courses of A/C chemo, and 34 radiation treatments at that time. This past Feb. (9 years after the initial diagnosis), I was found to have a recurrance on the right. My intention was to have a bilateral mastectomy with immediate DIEP flap reconstruction. The big hospital in Baltimore wouldn't do it all at once, and I didn't have time to go elswhere. They did the mastectomy, and placed tissue expanders...I got a post-op infection in the right, which was treated with the wrong antibiotic for about a week. I had to have one of the expanders removed, and was on home antibiotic therapy through a PICC line for 3 weeks.
The great news is, I was directed to Cleveland Clinic by a couple of women who had immediate DIEP flap reconstruction there with excellent results. I had bilateral DIEP flap reconstruction Dec. 3rd, and am doing great. No more "tight steel band" feeling around my chest as I had after the mastectomy...my chest now feels warm and comfortable. My Dr. had to use a bit of extra belly skin on my irradiated side, but it was not a problem, and the results are excellent.
Hope this helps! It took some searching and weathering of a few storms to get to this point, but I'm glad I persevered. God Bless you and your journey!