I did not have this same type of breast cancer, but have fought breast cancer myself and put it into remission.
I agree with what suzy said - keep living without looking back. (Or as the folk saying goes, "Don't let yesterday take up too much of today.")
At the same time, you can't let tomorrow take up too much of today, either. What will be is in part determined by how we live right now, minute to minute, day to day.
In choosing to live in the hear and now, we can be powerfully proactive toward preventing the future from mirroring the past. Find a good cancer diet chock full of fresh raw produce (organic is best) whenever possible. Drink plenty of fresh pure water (steam-distilled or revers-osmosis filtered are best.) Get lots of good aerobic exercise.
Make sure you are getting enough of the vitamins and minerals the body needs to maintain a healthy immune and cancer-fighting system. Most of the leading advocates of natural/alternative therapies say there are 5 minerals that are absolutely essential to anyone trying to prevent or fight cancer, and there is one vitamin that must be added to make these minerals work:
selenium: 200 mcg/day (can start with 400mcg/day but only for a few weeks)
magnesium: 200 - 250 mg/day (350 mg/day max), take with food
zinc: 50 mg/day (can start with 100mg/day but only for a few weeks), take with food
manganese 10 - 15 mg/day, take with food
calcium: 1200 mg/day
We need Vitamin D-3 to be able to absorb and utilize calcium. Our bodies manufacture D-3 if we get adequate sunlight (15 - 20 minutes exposure/day) - but I do not believe in leaving this to chance, so also recommend a Vitamin D-3 supplement, 1000 - 2000 iu/day (10,000 iu/day max)
If you want to see an example of easy, inexpensive foods, herbs and supplements that can be adopted into a cancer-preventive lifestyle, please take a look at my blog:
http://motherearthtreasurechest.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-pers
By no means are my blog articles the "be-all, end-all" for information - just something to give people an idea of what's available in the way of naturals to keep cancer away. Much more valuable information to be found on the internet and in a number of excellent books that have been published on the subject. Don't just think that you don't want the beast to come back - become proactive at keeping it away.
I highly recommend Dr Susan Love's Breast Book, 4th ed. by Dr Susan Love. many women consider this to be their bible on breast health. It is an excellent place to start for information on how to keep one's breast and body healthy.
I wish you many happy cancer-free years!
Sincerely,
Tre