Greetings, I just foundout that my aunt was diagnosed with Bone cancer, after being dignosed with Breast cancer. From what I understand the Bone cancer came from the breast cancer. My aunt was diagnosed with it back in the summer. I am usually left out of the loop and usually the last person to find anything out. I foundout that the Dr's can not do anything for her, and thet she does not have much time left. I just foundout this today, not even an hour ago. I as soon as I got off the phone with my mother I signed on, to find someone to talk too. She has grown very weak. My father is planning on renting a van to head up to Montanna, so he can visit her before she passes away. I am scared, still in shock, but scared too. I am partly afraid because, she has a Autistic son(Who is a minor, and is a mearical because the Dr's said he would never beable to do the things that he has showed them wrong about. All due to my Amazing Aunt.) Granted it is her adopted son. Her grandson to be more honnest. I am afraid of what is going to happen to him. I guess his Bioligical mother will have to take him, but well she does not know how to handle him, and does not treat him like his twin sister. She clearly plays favorites, we went do visit once and well he was at his Bioligical mothers house and well we did not approve of how she treated him. So, I am afraid of when my aunt moves on, what would happen to him. Asides that, I do not want anything to happen to my aunt. I am scared. But remember I just found this all out. I do not know what to do. What can I do? What am I to do, knowing my aunt is going to die and the DR's claim that there is nothing that they can do. Is it that they really could not do anything at the time? Or were they just saying it? Even if they were, It is prob. to late now. God, I am scared.
Sorry, I think I just needed to get this off my chest. And, well this is the perfect place to do it. I know I may be rambeling. But, I am scared. I am so scared. I wish there was something that I can do to help my Aunt. Anything, is there anything I can possibly do to help her? Anything at all? I love her to death, and I do not want her to die. I wish it was me instead of her.
I am also scared to go out there, because when I do.. I know that I would want to findout all of what is going on what is going to happen to her son, etc. But, I know that I would try to avoid the subject like nothing is wrong with her also. What should I do?