On 1/22/2009
scarab wrote:
OH MY Gosh!!!! I have for the past 4 years from radical mastectomy/radiation have pain beyond anything else I ever have been through, I have severe arm pain from lymphodema and have had surgery on my neck for nerve damages in between degenerative disc. But I thought I am the only person going thru this, the doctors either shake their heads and treat you like a whiner/drug addict when you explain these symptoms and ask for pain meds. I now cry each day and I literally feel worse now than when I went through all my cancer treatments etc., etc.. it is becoming unbearable. I have had 2 c section, a hysterectomy, radical mastecomy and this pain does not even compare. I basically go thru a cycle of no sleep for 2 to 3 days, then only to pass out from sheer exhaustion. If I knew now ,I would have never done the radiation because all my doc said was you will get lymphodema. Well at the time I am trying to get thru the cancer thing not really understanding what the outcome will be. I feel I was not really told everything and of course I can't do anything now. I am usually an optimistic about life, but now I am so limited. I hope someone that is going through the same thing will email me so we can share.
I'm coming up to my 4 yr. milestone (radical mastectomy and 33 radiation treatments) and am here to tell you I share your pain. I also have severe neck/head pain and feel that I should be grateful they seemingly got rid of the cancer but I have no quality of life because of this constant suffering. I also feel they take no interest in any nerve damage or after-effects from their powerful treatments.
I've seen about 8 drs./treaters about the neck pain. It's been diagnosed as occipital neuralgia. Nothing I've tried has helped. MRI doesn't seem to explain what's causing it. I also have degenerative disc.
I do get relief lying down and with pain meds - Vicodin. It ONLY hurts when I move. My most recent attempt was with 10 laser treatments by a chiropractor. Nothing changed. It hurts less when I look down. Working in the kitchen isn't so bad - fortunately for my husband!
About the arm pain. I am hopeful that I've avoided the lymphedema by doing two arm exercises every day. I do it before I get out of bed. Hold the arm up, lying on my side so arm is higher than heart, and make a fist and squeeze. Also, I "pump" my arm bending at the elbow. I do 75 "for good measure" because I've never known how many are recommended.
I feel women have been shortchanged by PT people. I had heard it was important to exercise the arm and did read about it in all the literature I received in the beginning. So far, no lymphedema. I think I would be totally discouraged if I had to endure that pain along with everything else.
I'm doing the Faslodex injection every 4 weeks. I just couldn't deal with the side effects from Arimidex and Aromacin. I hate the expense of the injection however.
My heart aches for young women going through all this. I'm 68 and have had a happy life. I just didn't know the retirement years would include quite this much pain.
Regards and here's to a solution out there somewhere.
JudyB