Hello, I was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer, estrogen/progesterone receptor positive back on Oct. 6, 2008. A pet scan showed mets to bones and lymph nodes throughout body. I did not have any lumps or bumps..nothing..except a dry chronic cough. I went to the Dr. for this, and an X-ray of my lungs showed some cloudiness and pleural effusion (fluid), plus slightly swollen lymph nodes under my arms. A subsequent lymph node removal/biopsy confirmed I had cancer. The main tumor was not found, including in breasts. The good news from the oncologist after the pet scan was that I do not have lung cancer, and it has not spread to any of my major organs, so far. I have been taking Arimidex every day and I receive Zometa IV infusions every other month. I have had no side effects from the Arimidez other than good ones, and the same goes for the Zometa. My tumor marker was 980 back in Oct. Blood work done two weeks ago shows it has gone down to 260. I have never had any pain anywhere, not in my bones, not anywhere, and the dry cough is gone. I am very athetic, and I work out vigourously 7 days a week. I think this makes a difference all around for me.
Receiving this diagnosis was brutal. I collapsed when the surgeon called to tell me. I was in my office, and he called to give me the bad news two days after the lymph node surgery. I am doing the best I can to keep on going.
The Dr. explained that although this is treatable, it is not curable. If something else does not get me lst., this will kill me eventually. I am also terrified of having it spread, which I suspect it will at some point.
I go to work everyday and smile. I go shopping, I talk to friends, I exercise, read, enjoy my dogs, cooking, etc... but the person I used to be is gone. Cancer is always there now, everywhere I go.
I am lucky in that I really like my Dr. She is a real take charge, let's get it done whatever it takes, high energy kind of person. Also, she graduated from Harvard Medical School and did her internship at The Mayo Clinic. As an example of what she's like, when the surgeon scheduled my lst. appointment with her, I received a call saying that my Pet Scan had been scheduled for the next day, this was before I even met her, and everything has been this way since...no delays of any kind.
Anyway, that's my story. Maybe it will help someone else.
Hugs & prayers to all,
Meg