stage 4 follicular lynphoma question

hello i have stage 4 follicular lyphoma in bone marrow and messentary wall and retropertional area and 4 treatments so far.  I'm 50 year old women and scared and wondering if any one else knows how long with stage 4 you can live and what to exspect to look for in relapse. I read so many different stories and I'm worried that if I ahd it as long as they say then how will I know if it comes back feeling like a needle with a drip and no answers at this point and would like to hear good news My goliath is about stoned to death but I need more ammunition........

Hi, I'm 25 and recently diagnosed with Hodgkin's Stage IV. I've been searching the web a lot in the past days and I have found that there are many Stage IV survivors who live after 10-20-30 years. That sounds amazing! I opened a new topic to hopefully collect some inspiring stories from survivors on this board. I wish you the very best Sherry! Best Regards, Norbert