On 2/4/2009 Buggie wrote:
My husband was just diagnosed with HCC on 12/31/08. the tumor is 6.8 cm - his levels are extremely high. We are currently talkgin to a doctor at the University of Penn in Philadelpha PA. We were told surgery is not an option right now due to the portal vien being pentrated by the tumor. He is recommending he start on Sorafenib. He also has Hep C which probably contracted about 32 years ago but only recently diagnosed 7 years ago. I am at complete loss what to expect from this disease. Currently he is not showing any major signs and feels fine. However, doctor explained his body is working on reserves right now. Please help me as his caregiver to understand what to expect and what I can do to make it easier and less painful.
So sorry to hear you are going through this. It could have been me writing it about 15 months ago. Sounds almost identical to my former husbands condition.
If the doctors are putting him on Nexavar, that is probably the best they can do for him. That will extend life by a few months. But be advised...there are many side affects that he may or may not want to go through. That will be a decision for him to make, but talk with your doctor about it. After my husband started taking that, his quality of life went down drastically! I don't believe I ever saw him smile again.
If he is in stage IV, be there for him, and don't hold back anything as far as what you'd like to say. He probably has a short time left, and my only regret is I allowed myself to "deny" that it was happening to him. (for his sake)
Confusion, irriattablilty with occur, swelling of stomach,feet, legs, etc.It usually happens soon after being dx, so be prepared.
Also, don't be afraind to get hospice involved. The sooner the better. They can be a wonderful support for the patient and caregivers. They know their business.
My husband, with Nexavar, was able to live 9 months, although it was not quality time.
My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Connie