Hi Beth,
I see that you wrote this about 2 months ago. What happened? Did you continue to stick with your doctor or did you end up "scraping" him? It sounds like to me that's he's jerking your chain. If I were you, I think I would find a female doctor and even a PA. If you get a physician's assistant, they are more likely to dig in and not leave any questions unanswered.
I'm curious to know how things are going, so let me know.
Thanks!
Melissa