I understand the frustration, I'm a 46 year old male on the backside of chemo and surgury for stomach cancer. I remember last summer when it was painful to eat and I was losing energy and weight.
Some things that worked for me then and now:
1. Ensure (I only liked the chocolate ones)
2. V8 juice
3. Orange Juice / Banana / Ice / Dietary supplement powder (Vanilla): makes a kind of Orange Julius shake - took me a while to get down the first few times, but makes a huge difference in Energy level
4. Soups - I lived on these
5. Baked Potatoes - don't understand why this worked for me, but for a time I lived on BPs with butter and pepper on them
Finding foods that worked became a full time event for a while. And I had the same thing, where Dr. and such were of little help.
Chemo was hard for me, like having the flu for 5 days. But it was very effective, and after the first round it made eating possible, which made all the difference in the world. My tumor was partially blocking my esophogus, so its shrinking helped a ton.
Let me know if you want any other information. Every cnacer is different, every patient is different and every experience is personal and different from the next. We can just learn from each other and try to find a formula that works.
There is HOPE. I am now cancer free and on my way to full recovery.