Hi Renee,
You're not alone. I am looking forward to my next labwork and CT scan with trepidation. I've had two recurrences of endometrial cancer. The first was within six months of my diagnoses and the second within six months of the end of chemo. It's been six months since the end of my second course of chemo, so the timing of my next labwork and CT scan fit the "bad new" metric. But I'm very hopeful the news will be good.
I'm taking Arimidex because my cancer is positive for estrogen receptors, and I'm hoping that it is doing its job.
It sounds like you're doing well to have made it 3.5 years from diagnosis.
In both endometrial and ovarian cancer, the accumulation of fluid in the abdomen is a symptom of recurrence. And there are a lot of ladies on this message board who will respond to your message with info about ovarian cancer.
Also, you should contact your oncologist with your questions. Mine has always been very responsive when I've had questions.
I hope all goes well for you.