Yes my dad had a lot of trouble eating when he was first out of surgery.However he did have all of his chemo and radiation before the surgery and none after the fact,so he still had a lot of bad taste from that.I don't know if there is any solution or not, we just tried to get dad to drink as much of the ensure as he could(he referred to it as slop)he didn't like it but did what he could.Did they not leave a g tube in your mom?That would probably have been the best thing so you could shoot it straight in.My dad had one for awhile and actually should have left it in a while longer but talked the doctors in to removing it.Which it did bother him alot and was uncomfortable.But he actually started maintaining a little weight around that time which kind of helped.It really is hard on the older generation,they have eaten the same way for so long it's hard to change their habits.(mine to for that matter)
My dad does stay up a lot longer now.He has a wood shack it the backas we call it)and he does some wood working. The shack is always a blessing for moral believe me.We know his biggest problem is his eating habits where as he needs to eat all day.He sometimes is still sickly in am and doesn't eat ,so then when he gats hungry later he eats to much and the not much the rest of the day.(not good)He sure has lost alot of weight also-probably close to 125 I would say.I don't know how we're going to get him maintaing any kind of weight.It sure does have to be hard on the body with out a stomach,actually pretty amazing you can live without it.