Hi,
I completley understand what you are going through. My dad was also diagonised with cancer in mid March and we were devasted. For the life of me, I can't figure out how he went to the dr with a pain in his side and just like that, stage 4 stomach cancer. What happend to 1,2, and 3 It is baffling and devasting because there is nothing you can do.
This week he is in the hospital going through aggressive chemo and radiation. All I can tell you is to stay positive, stay in prayer knowing that god can do anything. Miracles happen we believe that and you and your family have to do the same. I will pray for you hang in there, I know how you feel as does everyone on this board. This is a great place to come for comfort.
Shanda