I am at a loss. My mom had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in September last year. She had a whipple in October. Since the operation she has continued to loose weight. has never really restored her quality of life- can't really eat. she throws up daily..couple times a day. has really fowl smelling b.m. and has pain in her back and stomach.
a week and a half ago she had a heart attack. my son called 911. i was out of town for work. I rushed back- a 6 hour ride - to learn that she could be a candidate for stents- angio plasty but if she needed a by-pass surgery -that was not an option. In my heart I knew why. but - I had to ask. The doctors didnt want to talk to her or me about the results of a CT scan they had done.
They had run a CT to see if she had blown out an artery. Thank goodness she didnt. But they saw cancer in her lymph nodes by her heart. I had to request to speak to the cardiologist and the oncologist. They were happy not saying a word. I had to ask them to tell us the truth. My mom asked them to tell me all of what they knew.
They know that she has a rare amplulla of the vater. it has spread to the lungs and lymph nodes in her heart.The also know she has small nodules in her stomach and near where they did the whipple just 6 months ago.
They said she is going to die. Has about 6 months to a year if lucky. The oncologist told my mom she could do a round of chemo to try to slow the growth of the cancer down.
I don't really think that she can decline in her quality of life much more than she already has. Can anyone please tell me how will doing chemo be a good choice? It will give her a month or more? she is not well. She is very tired, loosing weight weekly, and has bad episodes of dizzyness. I was thinking the dizzyness was due to her heart problems. Now I am thinking that the cancer is in her brain.
The cardiologist said that she shouldnt be dizzy because of her heart. That has me thinking that the cancer is in her brain.
We meet with the Oncologist again June 1st. I dont want to be the pesimistic person in the room. I just think that she is much worse than the oncologist had told me. I see her daily. I know she is very ill. What do you think?