My husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer with metastasis to the bones 10 months ago and was told that the prognosis is about a year. After 3 chemo failed, the oncologist swirched it to Tarceva, which was also offered to him as clinical trial ( but later was decided to try chemo first). After a month there was marked improvement of his tumor markers. Two months after showed that the size of the tumor decreased and pleural effusion has not reaccumulated.He is on seventh month on Tarceva and it will be a year next month when he was first diagnosed.He is active and doing as much as he can although he is is now on permanent disability.
He suffers on of from peripheral neuropathy ( toes especially) , dry eyes, back pain ( from the bone mets) occasional diarrhea and the pimple like rashes to his face, chest, back thighs. But the side effects are less compared to when he was receiving IV chemotheraphy.
For the neuropathy, I give him massage every night and that relaxes him so he can sleep. I have to give him a sleeping aid because during the night is when he feels the side effects most. It is important that the body is rested so it can rejuvinate itself. For Back pain control , he takes Vicodin twice a day.
I try to give him as much vegetables and fish in his diet and supplement it with multivitamins, including antioxidants called SANGO ( from mangosteen)
I am a nurse and I believe that a patient is to be treated holistically. Praying and being close to God has helped boost his spirits. We go to a prayer support group once a month. We are Catholics, so our family pray the rosary everyday. Somehow praying together has helped our family to deal with this crisis .We are going to Lourdes this August and hope the healing waters will do him good. From time to time he gets anxious but going to church almost everyday somehow makes him a lot better.
I hope this helps you.