Dear Bunker,
I first wanted to let you know Bunker, what a true friend you have been to my sister Lisa (tiffany64). I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the inspiration you gave to her over the past few months. I also want to inform you that she lost her fight with RCC on January 19th. She was doing pretty well up until Christmas. We had a great day together and she ate a wonderful meal, probably more in that day than in several weeks combined. But unfortunately, she developed a bladder infection the first week of January and we took her to ER and got antibiotics for that. She was very weak and not eating. She was very dehydrated and they gave her fluids and she felt somewhat better when she left ER but not well by any means. The antibiotics didn't really help much and by the 13th had become very lethargic and unresponsive. She was very stubborn and didn't want to go to the hospital. Silly girl! Anyway when her husband called Becky, our other sister who lives in the same town to come and try to get her up, she knew something was terribly wrong. She called me and we arranged an ambulance to take her to the hospital she had been doctoring with. They found she had pneumonia and that the first 24-48 hours were critical. She fought very hard and actually lived for 6 more days. We have lost a very special part of us and will never be the same. I hope that you continue your fight and have a much better outcome than she did. The only relief we have in any of this is that we don't believe she ever knew she didn't beat it.. She was unresponsive for most of those days in the hopital and hospice center. Again, thank you for all your support with her as she wasn't one to reach out and ask for much. She was the one to help everyone else. I don't know if this is how the end comes for others or not. I believe the pneumonia is what ended her life so soon after the diagnosis, not the cancer. The cancer was at a bad stage but the Sutent did seem to be making a difference. Well, I will quit rambling for now. Take care all of you who read this and God Bless You!!
Kris