Yes, your wife has a very aggressive canzer and has had very aggressive chemo treatments. I hope she is doing well with the chemo. She is lucky to have such a caring husband. Thank you from all of us 'survivors' for being a lovegiver (caregiver). YOU are the true heroes. The ones that stick through and fight through all of this when you have a choice. We didn't, but you do.
Does your wife have squamous cell carcinoma? Just curious, I guess. Anyway, I was diagnosed 8/07 at 43. I'm stage IV with mets to the liver and celiac lymph nodes. I progressed on folfox and folfiri (oxaliplatin and irinitecan) w/erbitux. My liver tumors grew to the point that I had one pushing on the hepatic artery in a very scary way. My radiation onc started external beam radiation and my chemo cocktail was changed to mitomycin c (used for anal canzer), xeloda and avastin. It was a very rough regimen but my latest PET/CT shows No Evidence of Active Disease. The 6 liver tumors that were radiated have shown full necrosis and the ones in the left lobe showing 0% uptake, as are the lymph nodes. Go figure. Even my oncologists are stunned.
Has anyone talked about radiation? I was considered for both external beam and stereotactic (cyberknife) and we decided from there which was best for my situation. I don't know why that hasn't been discussed but I do know that some docs won't add any treatments other than chemo until your disease is stable. In my case, I was 17 months in and was still not stable. We HAD to do something.
I hope this helps some. I don't have any answers, nor do I have the same 'strain' of colon canzer. But if you keep collecting info you'll know what questions to ask and just feel more confident sitting in front of the doctor. It all helps.
Good Luck,
Kimby