On 6/25/2009
Caron wrote:
Hi ya!! i was diagnosed with cervical cancer 3 weeks ago, so I'm not sure what pre-op test are best suited for you but I first had a biopsy done & yesterday I went for a MRI. I think the MRI was the best test so far as they results were so positive. They could see exactly where my tumor is, the exact size of the tumor. They also found that my cancer was confined to this area & it had not affected my lymphnodes. My next step is surgery, which I will have in 2 weeks tme.
Hope this helps, never settle for only one explaination if you do not feel comfortable... go with your gut instinct.
Good luck.
Good luck, hun. And I hope your outcome is as good as mine. Two volley-ball sized cancerous tumors BUT they were low malignant tumors which procedure calls for no further treatment and I have a 97% chance that they got it all. But because I have an excellent surgeon at UCSD, she does not want to chance that 3% coming back. Sooooooooo I have to go in every 6 months for the rest of my life to make sure.
But they did diagnose me with depression. And I told them the many things that had happened to me after my OC diagnosis. My 16 y.o. that has been bullied for three years now received another cyber text bully message and I had called the vice principal and reported the cyber bullying AGAIN which is illegal since January of this year. Then shortly thereafter, our house was broken into and my daughters room was trashed. Every drawer turned upside down, bedding stripped and the mattress on the floor. All her makeup stolen along with her hair straightener, Ipod, Ihome and her old cell phone broken into three pieces. This bully hit her mark because my daughter was and is still terrified.
Then her biological grandmother found her on Facebook. Like she could not have considered my daughter's feelings and waited until she turned 18?? Then her biological mom called her and told that the reason she did not see her was because of me. That I told her that my daughter's grades were not good enough. Pathological liar offensive word removed . There are no grades in July as per our agreement for the once a year visit.She did not make one visit and she blamed this on me.
I was going through, well you know what I was going through emotionally, and just did not need this extra baggage before surgery. So this made me sad. Pick on me but do not pick on my kid!
So I haven't been sleeping or eating well and I asked my doctor for sleeping pills. No, she said I needed to make an appointment in a week so she can talk to me about barbiturates and alcohol. I had just told my surgeon, in confidence, that I was using alcohol as a pain reliever after my pills ran out and the traitor told my primary doctor. And I specifically asked her if this conversation was confidential. So this made me sadder. I can't trust my surgeon to keep her mouth shut.
Thanks for letting me vent. Now I think I will cancel my appointment with my primary next week and get some sleeping pills on the black market. F.... her and her traitor friend my surgeon.
Oh and while I was updating my emails to my friends last night, the bully passed by our house and yelled f... you at the top of her lungs. Woke up my husband and probably many of our neighbors so I did not get one minute of sleep last night because I overreacted emotionally. I am going to file restraining orders on the bully and her boyfriend and pray that there will be no additional violence toward my daughter. Wish me luck! ): and hopefully they will back off.
I just know that if these things had happened before my diagnosis, I would have been able to handle things better emotionally.