My name is Mick. A close friend of mine found out that she has Cervical Cancer. She has been complaining of her tummy hurting, and her periods have been unregulated, delayed by a few weeks here and there. So she went to the doctors and they did some test, and she finally got a Paps done.
Anyways, she is only 19. When she first told me I told her not to worry because at the time we really didn't know. Well two weeks ago she said that she had cancer and that she would be starting chemo treatments soon. She said that it wasn;t bad, that she would not need surgery. So I told her I am here for her. I am in PA and she lives in CA, so it is hard for us. I want to be there in person, but I have a summer internship. I am planning on going to see her in August, but afraid it could be too late.
She told me two nights ago, that she is no longer Stage 2 and that she is worse. She has to go to her treatments everyday this week. They also told her that she has a 25% chance, which I think is odd, becuase how can it change so fast in two weeks. It is hard on her, she has already start to lose her hair, and she says she feel weak. Her family is also been up and down about her. Not always beaning there for her, and just acting mean.
I am the only person who knows other then her family, and I don't know what to do for her. I can only do so much through calling and texting, and the time difference is hard on us. I am doing my best, I guess to let her know that I'm here for her. She hates when I tell her she'll be fine and stuff like that..she is getting sick of my always saying it and it not happening. I just want to do something for her. We use to be a couple, but things didn't work out and now I feel that I am going to lose her.
If you can help in anyway I would greatly appreciate it, I just don't know...