On 6/27/2009 justins mom wrote:
My 14 year old son is on hospice. To those of you that have lost loved ones, is this something I will be able to handle at home? I've heard of peaceful deaths, and some not so peaceful. We've been on hospice almost 6 weeks now, and I'm afraid of the end. If you don't mind, what are some of your experiences?
I am SO sorry to hear about your son. It just isn't right!!!!! It's not fair. Why???
I don't know, but I think you will feel better about having Justin at home.
My cousin had a Son who was diagnosed with Brain Cancer at age 18 and passed at age 21. They had hospice and I don't think they had any regrets.
My husband had brain surgery in Feb. of this year. He has the same Brain cancer my cousin's son had. I have been asking myself the same question. When the time comes, do I want hospice or will I be able to handle it. I want to do everything I can for him. That is why I feel hospice is the answer. I think they should be as comfortable as possible. I don't think you will have any regrets.
My heart goes out to you. I am sending hugs and prayers your way. You can e_mail me anytime.
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Penny