Melinda.
I had a whipple in February 2008 when I was 47. When I had the surgery they knew I had a tumor and suspected it was cancer but were not 100% certain, This caused me a lot of grief because I didn't want to go through this procedure for nothing. As it turns out it was stage 2 cancer and was just starting to spread. My onogolist later told me that without the surgery I probably would have been dead within 6 months. So even though it's a pretty aggressive surgery, you really don't want to take any chances.
The initial recovery from the surgery was tough, but not as bad as I thought it would be. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks, About 2 months after the surgery I had chemo and radiation for about 6 months as a precaution. The last month of chemo was the worst for me, but not because of the pain, By this point I had not really felt 100% good in months and I was starting to wonder if I ever would. But I'm happy to say that about 2 months after I finished chemo I started feeling mostly normal again.
After the surgey there were some foods that I did't want to eat, but I was never on a special diet and did not need enzymes. Now I eat the same as before the operation.
I was able to go back to work after 4 weeks, but I was lucky in that I work out of the house and could take naps when I felt tired, In my case, I didn't have a lot of physical pain, but I was tired alot and the chemo made me feel a little sick.
It's now been about 16 months since my surgery. Every once in a while I have some pain where the incision was but for the most part I feel great, if you met me on the street you would never know I had cancer or a whipple procedure. The recovery period is long, but you still can do things, I worked, went on vacations, coached softball and had a pretty much normal life during my recovery. You will be tired, but eventually you will get your energy back.
The one thing I would caution you about is doing strenous activity after the surgery, they told me to take it easy, but I wanted to get on with my life as soon as possible, so I was out coaching my daughters softball team and running around after 2 months which was way too early. As a result, I ripped the stomach lining where they cut me open and now have to have a hernia operation to fix the tear.
I hope all goes well with your surgery and wish you well
John