I am a newcomer to this site and will tell a little about My Dads situation..
He was a healthy 77 year old man with only a history of hypertension. He had complained of mid back pain after eating for about a year. Had a CT done, as he was worried about pancreatic cancer. (His Mom had died from this). CT was fine. He then had a 1 time incident of difficulty swallowing an apple. No GERD or other issues like that. I encouraged him to see his MD again for an upper scope. He had the UGI in Nov 08 and was diagnosed with adenocarcinoma of the GE junction. He went thru the chemo and daily radiation for 5 weeks and did pretty well besides some mouth sores and generalized fatigue. He was given a few months to recuperate, and then had the Ivor Lewis surgery in May. He was in surgery for 10 hours! They removed 12 lymph nodes and they all tested negative. PET scans show to mets, so he is considered stage 3.
He is now about 6 weeks post op and is doing pretty well. Appetite is improving, strength improving, but is not gaining much weight. Preop he was 191, and now is 175. Not too bad, but he looks too skinny to me!
He has an abdominal wound that failed to heal in the center, so I have been packing that twice daily since he has been home. (I am a nurse, which helps!). I was initially using about 14 inches of packing and am now down to about an inch, so almost healed!
Today we return to the Oncologist to discuss starting back on chemo as a precautionary measure. I hate the thought of it, but we will do what needs to be done.
My Dad has a great attitude and works very hard to get better. He certainly can be cranky sometimes, especially with my Mom! He walks 1/2 mile daily and has been going to PT to improve his upper body strength.
I think his only shot of a cure was to have this surgery, so am glad we did it. No major complications. It certainly will change his lifestyle ( how much he eats, has to sleep with head elevated on wedge etc..), so am glad he had it done.
There are so many options and it is hard to know what to do...
Hang in there!
Katrina