Thanks for the well wishes everybody.
I just got off the phone with the surgeon's nurse. My PET scan will be done next week and as long as it does not show mets anywhere else we will proceed with surgery. After meeting with the oncology and tumor boards at the teaching hospital it was recommeded that I have a bilateral dissection done. They can almost guarantee that I will have a temp trach coming out of surgery and peg tube. I am beyond terrified at the moment. Both of these were mentioned as possible complications when we reviewed everything last week. He said that the board of oncologists are very concerned and feel that treatment needs to be incredibly aggressive.
I met with an oncologist that is completely outside the group yesterday just to see what he says. He basically reassured me that I could not have a better surgeon and that what he recommends would be what he would do for a family member or himself if in the same situation. He also said that if the PET scan shows mets that my cancer then becomes labelled in uncureable and that I should NOT go through with the surgery. He also said that historically thyroid cancers do not respond to chemo but do radiation so he would recommend an agressive radiation plan.
I am to the point now that I hate talking with doctors because I never get any good news. This surgery will land me in ICU for at least 3 days and probably in the hospital for up to a week.
Did I mention I am getting married in 85 days and will now most likely have the trach and radiation marks for my wedding? I have said through this whole thing that the last thing I wanted to do was move my wedding date. I am now seriously considering it.