A little over a year ago I was diagnosed with colon cancer with metz to the liver. After seven months of chemo., surgery in January which removed 8 inches of colon and 60% of my liver (no colostomy thank God), and six more rounds of post-surgery chemo., I am doing fine. I just had a PET scan and my surgeon said "everything looked good." The more I talk to people, the more stories I hear that are similar to mine. The key for me was having a wonderful, confident surgeon who is trained in all the newest procedures. If he wasn't here, no other surgeon where I live would have even tried. I'd be dead if it wasn't for him.
So, if you have docs telling you that there is no hope, then find another doctor. And keep looking until you find the one that will help you. Eat well, exercise, live life and have faith. More and more of us are beating this every day.