He started the chemo and developed and ileus in his colon, he has now lost 30 pounds and asked my sister and i to put him in assisted living so he can get stronger , he says he is too weak to start chemo and radiation on the 10th of august. not even sure he is going to do chemo again. I am so worried if he does chemo and raditation it will be even worse than just the chemo. The chemo made him miserable. i am so worried about him not doing anything and just giving up.. but i still want to have hope, so i do not want him to stop treatments. either way it is hard...