Hi Joanne,
I was dx with T3/4 squamous cell carcinoma in March of 2008. from April through to June i received advance chemo combined with radiation. i tolerated the treatments well and actually gained weight during this time because of tumor shrinkage and i was able to eat again. after treatment was complete, tests showed no live cancer cells. i was told surgery was my option at this point, however highly recommended since i had a 45% chance of still having something microscopic which could not be detected without surgery. it was a tough decision, but i decided to go through with it.
i had the ivor lewis surgery done on September 2, 2008. i was told prior to surgery i would be up and walking the next day...this was hard to believe but sure enough, they had me up and walking not long after leaving recovery. they had me do 14 laps around the nurses station each day, which was equal to 1 mile...with each day, things got better and better. 5 days after surgery, my feeding tube was removed and i was put on a liquid diet. on the 6th day, i was able to eat a mechanical diet which is regular food, finely chopped. i left the hospital on september 9th with all tubes removed...all i had was pain meds. i continued the pain meds for another 3 weeks, gradually weining myself off to only tylenol.
the recovery period for such a surgery is very slow and there were many times where i did not feel i was getting better. i would have to look back to the week before and think of what i was like then to realize 'yes, i am getting better'. i went back to work fulltime on december 8th and have been going strong ever since. there are days, where i am fatigued and feel nauseous from over eating, but i am cancer free and that is what really counts!
i wish your husband and you the very best of everything...
stay well and God bless.
-Stacey