Hello Ethel,
I am sorry for what your husband and you are going through. Pancreatic cancer is terrible but if it has mets to his lung, some evidence points to it not being as aggressive in the lung. If it is a primary lung cancer, he still has a good chance for life.
My husband has had rectal cancer diagnosed in 9/01 treated with neo-adjuvant chemo and radiation followed with surgical resection early in '02. At the end of chemo and radiation he was found to require a quad coronary bypass 12/01 in order to survive the cancer surgery.
He then had colon cancer, not mets but a new cancer, in '03 with 1 positive node. Surgery again with more chemo and radiation. Pancreatic cancer was diagnosed 11/06 with Whipple surgery 12/06 followed by simultaneous radiation and 5-FU chemo. After a brief rest, more chemo, this time Gemcitabine, IV infusion for 3 weeks and 1 week off each month for 6 months.
During this time, about 3/08, bilateral, inoperable lung mets were discovered on CT scan. Much to our surprise, the pathology report showed these to be colo/ rectal cancer mets, not pc mets. He has not had any treatment for the lung mets because he has not had any symptoms and the lesions are not growing. He continues to live his life, bowling several times each week, playing cards once a week, enjoying movies occasionally and going out for lunch.
We know what the end of this story will be but we don't dwell on it. We just live our lives. This weekend my husband will be going, with his son and grandson, to his 60th high school reunion. Not bad for a 77 year old gentleman, wouldn't you agree?
Please tell your husband about my husband. There is life after cancer, there is much about which to be hopeful.
Good luck and God speed.
Joan L
P. S. There is a great online pc support board maintained by Johns Hopkins. There are both patients and caregivers with lots of knowledge willing to provide support. You can share your concerns and experience. You can find the board by googling.