On 8/4/2009 Brenda55 wrote:
Just diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer with mets in my bones. My side effects are minimal (sore muscles), but I'm wondering if I'm doing all that I can to save my life. Three doc. opinions tell me no surgery, so I sit with the tumor in my breast and cancer cells in my bones.
Has anyone had a lasting success with just these 2 treatments and no surgery with Stage IV? Everyone I talk to has had their breasts removed (or at least has had radiation), but no one wants to do that. I'm wondering if it is because they don't think I have that long to live to put me thru that. Any survivors out there with Stage IV that DID NOT have surgery?
i was diagnosed with stage 1V breast cancer 2 years ago, with tumors in my breast and lymph nodes, and unfortunately too it had spread to my bones (my spine). i went through 5 rounds of chemo, but did not have radiation. i was put on and still take arimidex. the chemo destroyed the tumors in my breast and lymph nodes, i have an exam every 3 months. it didn't totally destroy it in my spine tho, but it did show marked improvement. we are being given arimidex because the type of breast cancer we have is hormone receptor positive, it needs estrogen to exist or grow, the arimidex blocks the hormones from getting to the tumors. about 2 months ago i started having horrible back pain, an mri showed 3 slipped discs and arthritis besides the cancer. surgery on the discs wasn't an option because of the chance of spreading the cancer, so i was hospitalized for 3 weeks of radiation and pain control. it is somewhat better now, but the radiation can take up to 5 mos. to work, so i am given alot of pain meds. and doing alot of praying. i'm not an expert on anything, but i really would suggest you talk to your dr. and ask him the questions you've asked in your email. not knowing where you stand or why they are choosing the choice of treatment they chose must be emotionally draining and frightening, and i think these are things they should have discussed with you. please feel free to email me personally if you want to talk, it sounds like we have been riding in the same boat for a while. my thoughts and prayers are with you