My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer a year ago and has been undergoing chemotherapy every week since. He has responded quite well with no real side effects and the tumors, one on the wall of the stomach, and the other outside, have shrunk a little, the tumors in his neck and liver show no active signs at all.
Our oncologist has spoken to the surgeon, who now believes that it is time for my husband to have his stomach, (we are not sure yet how much of it) removed. From everything I have read about this surgery the recovery and after effects are just dreadful. Could anyone who has had successs with this surgery and could offer me advise please help me. We have had several people saying that quality, not quantity of life is more important and he should think seriously about this surgery, this infuriates me and makes my husband very nervous, as we were under the impression that this was his only chance of survival.
I would also like to know if anyone can tell me, if this is ethical, of whom they would recommend as the top surgeon to do this surgery. We live in LA but we are prepared to travel anywhere we need to for this.
Thank you for any advise anyone can give me
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