Danielle,
Look back at the question on 8/03 titled:
Suggestions To Help With Side Effects From Sct And Neupogen
I posted a fairly long answer about some of the things to expect with a SCT. Others had some good suggestions as well. Do you know what protocol your sister will do? I am assuming this is an auto SCT (using her own stem cells).
For the most part, I found the auto SCT to be not so bad. I did get nauseated and threw up a few times but that mostly lasted just a couple days. Can't imagine why they want to keep her in the hospital for 3 weeks. I had the option of doing mine outpatient but decided to check into the hospital for the worst of it. They sent me home in less than a week -- that was starting with the day of the melphalan infusions. I did end up back in the hospital for a couple more days about a week later due to atrial fibrillation. A lot of people end up with some kind of fever or infection and they want to watch that closely.
A few suggestions: It is nice to have your own clothes to wear rather than a hospital gown (pajamas, sweats or anything else that is comfortable). It is easier if the top buttons up the front since she will have to be dealing with IV lines.
My sister-in-law brought me videos to watch. You will need to check to see what is available. If you have DVDs instead and she has a laptop, she can probably watch them on that. A compact DVD player can be purchased for pretty cheap if she doesn't have other options. Volunteers came around a couple times a week with videos we could borrow and watch.
A computer is great to have. Most hospitals now have wireless networking so that she could get on line to keep up or just for entertainment (a lot of tv shows are available for watching on line or she might like playing games). I didn't have my own computer with me but there were computer stations on the floor that were available to use. It just wasn't near as nice as being able to have one available to use in your room.
Books and magazines are good but I really didn't feel much like reading most of the time. Books on tape might work better.
Many people really like music. There were a couple of channels on the tv that played relaxing music with nice scenic pictures that I listened to, especially when I wanted to sleep. It would be nice to have her favorite music available with CD's or an i-Pod if she has one.
Visitors are great but be aware of what she wants. Some people like having someone around all of the time. Since I live alone, I like my privacy so I was fine with not having a lot of visitors. It is nice to have someone there to walk with you. At my clinic, they wanted us up walking around the floor several times a day.
Check and see how the room will be set up. In mine, there was a Murphy bed so that a visitor could stay over. It might be fun for you to stay and have a slumber party a couple of times. And, phone calls are almost always welcome.
Food -- most likely they will have her on a restricted diet (no raw fresh fruit or vegetables, no unpasturized dairy products, etc.). Check into this before bringing in any food from the outside. The hospital where I stayed had a really good menu and you could order what & when you wanted most of the day (6am to 10pm, I believe) -- more like a restaurant. And the food was rather good. Visitors could order from a separate menu and the prices weren't too bad. You might want to join her for a meal now and then. Ask if they have a guest menu.
She might want to take some things to make her feel more at home -- pictures of family, friends, pets, etc. or a special quilt or blanket or pillow.
Does she do needlework or knitting or some other craft project that is fairly compact? Does she like to do jigsaw puzzles or sudoku or crossword puzzles?
Hope this gives you some ideas. Let us know if you have some more specific questions.
Janet